Genderfluid

Guys, today I'm gonna talk about genderfluid.

What is genderfluid?

denoting or relating to a person who does not identify themselves as having a fixed gender.

It means, sometimes you would feel like a guy or a girl. Or even both.

This is me. Both. Not my twin because I don't have one. Hahahahaha!

So, I'm gonna tell you how does it feels like to be genderfluid.

Being neutral is one of the best gift. Why? Because you can do both. You can do what guys do or vice versa. But also, you will get a lot of annoying questions.
Like:-

Hey, you're a girl. Dress like one. Or, are you a T (tomboy)? Or even! Are you a lesbian? And more!
Ugh. I got these questions especially from my family. Just because I dressed like boys. I'm stronger than I should be. I play rough sports.
Look. I do not defy myself as a guy because physically I'm a lady no matter what I feel inside.

Now, people! Asking people these questions are very rude. Extremely RUDE! Do you have any idea what others felt when you ask that question? They won't answer you because nowadays human are judging people. Do you have any idea that this is one kind of bullying? No you don't. Because you don't care. 

So, guys! Please stop asking these kind of question. I am who I am and I don't have change myself to please you. What is the point of living if you're not comfortable in your own skin? 

I will always be a girl, no matter how I wear or what I do. I can say this because there's someone who's able to bring out the girly side of me. I'll can be clingy af. I can be very annoying like other girls. I still blush when someone makes me to. 

Love always~ Adios amigos! :3

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